Arnold H. Bocker (Arnie)

Arnold H. Bocker (Arnie) passed away peacefully on Oct. 13, 2025, with his daughter and family members at his side. He was 88 years old.

Born in Sioux Falls, S.D., to Hazel and John Bocker, Arnie spent his early years in the Midwest before the family relocated to Maple Valley, Wash. In 1955, he married Sharrin Marnes, and together they had two sons, Karl and Mike. Though their marriage came to a close, the time they spent together remained an important chapter in Arnold's life.

In 1957, Arnie married Elizabeth Warner, and together they had four children: Scott, Julie, Brian – who passed away shortly after birth – and Valerie.

In 1967, Arnie purchased a farm in Addy, Wash., where he spent the majority of his life farming wheat, oats, and alfalfa, and operating a dairy farm. He also drove a semi-truck for several years, embodying the hardworking spirit that defined him.

In 2003, Arnie faced the heartbreaking loss of his beloved wife Elizabeth to cancer. Soon after, he sold the farm and entered retirement. He eventually moved to Arizona, where he remarried, Lila Pruyne, and embraced a new chapter of life. In retirement, Arnie found joy in golfing and traveling the country in his RV – exploring new places and meeting new people – always with a sense of adventure and appreciation for life's simple pleasures.

In 2020, due to the pandemic, Arnie decided to move to New Smyrna Beach, Fla., to be closer to his daughter and grandchildren.

Arnie was known for his steadfast work ethic and love for his family. He was preceded in death by his wife Elizabeth; sons Brian, Mike, and Scott; daughter Julie; and grandson Dustin.

He is survived by son Karl Shoemaker and daughter-in-law Carol; daughter Valerie Peterson and son-in-law David; grandchildren: Katie, Ashley, Colten, Angela, Jamie, Tandy, Andrew, Steven, and Michael; and great-grandchildren: Jaedon, Kloe, Hunter, Lola, Taylor, Chase, Henry, Walter, Mia, Ava, Jacob, Matthew, and Thomas.

Per Arnie's request, there will be no formal services. In remembrance of him, he asks that you commit a random act of kindness – a gesture that reflects the quiet generosity and compassion he carried throughout his life.